At our last art workshop for foster care youth, we had 30 teens who crowded into the make-shift art space. We built the workshop around one of the activities in Chill & Spill called Powerful/Powerless.
We asked, what makes you feel powerful? What makes you feel powerless? What words describe your feelings? What images describe your words?
Then, we taught them a unique collage technique to create images that expressed what they looked like when they felt powerful.
One particular student, 12-year old Victoria, stood out to me. She had been in the foster care system from an early age because of her mother’s substance abuse. She had been shuffled from home to home. The emotional trauma that she continually experienced because of the constant upheaval was taking its toll on her. The ongoing separation, continual sense of loss, and feelings of uncertainty were her constant companions. The difficulties she had experienced had begun to take their toll on her – her sense of self and overall mental and health was beginning to deteriorate. And her day to day behavior clearly revealed these internal conflicts.
A few weeks after the workshop, all the youth’s beautiful artwork was displayed in a gallery in downtown Seattle. As the youth filtered in, they were oohing and “awing” over how professional their work looked in the gallery and behind glass.
Victoria came up to one of our staff and asked, “What does that red dot on my art mean?”
“Well, that means somebody bought your piece!”
Victoria couldn’t believe it. She squealed – and jumped up and down – and just beamed. Her smile was infectious. You could just see her bursting with pride. Someone bought her work of art. She felt seen, and heard, and important. She was an artist! She was powerful.
For children like Victoria, moments like this are a lifeline. Providing reasons for kids to feel pride in themselves is critically important because, as we know, low self-esteem can affect our entire being – our thoughts and attitudes, relationships, and experiences.
By promoting healthy self-esteem, children’s mental well-being, their assertiveness, and resilience increase. Art with Heart’s workshop was a stepping stone in building and supporting Victoria’s self-confidence. Art with Heart is making strides…one child at a time.